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Question by Jenna N:
I’m scared to go to the police about my husband stealing my pain MD’S(his dad is a Miami ex-detective)HELP!?
I asked the following question before. I got excellent answers, however, many stated I should go to college to find superior people. Just to let you know I went to college, I have a graduate degree in Bookkeeping & I still owe $ 55,000 worth of student loans. I would like to change careers but I am struggling VERY HARD with my disabilities from my automobile accident that happened in 2004. I have had 9 operations since & I just came home from the hospital this day for the 10th time since. I went because I suffer extremely painful spasms that radiate from my brain stem to the left side of my head. I have Occupital & Trigenimal Neuralgia among other things. If I do not stop the pain the inflamation affects my motor functions & if left untreated I will have permanent brain damage. The automobile accident was not my fault. The person who caused this 3 automobile pile up on I-95 (where I was the middle automobile that landed on the automobile in front of me and then my automobile fell backwards) was obligated to pay me via their insurance paid their policy limit which was $ 100,000 within months of the accident. This just barely covered my hospital bill. My Lexus was totaled. I am in serious debt from this accident & had to take a large cut in pay because I physically cannot handle what I used to before the accident. My employer stated I am not the same person because of all the mistakes I make (which I never did before the accident). My employer is right (acknowledged by all my doctors), thus, I also have been told by all my physicians to go on disability. I am working on getting partial disability mainly for protection against discrimination for my current medical condition. I am granted to work while partial disability, The limited income threshold from receiving partial disability will help supplement from what I am making now. As far as religious groups. I have tried but it’s hard to be around people when you do not want to feel like a burden because of my ongoing medical problems. Also, the only sibling I had died in the auto accident & my parents cannot handle anymore stress so sharing this problem with them would be too overwhelming for them. I know this because I have hinted enough to see what their reaction would be. Finally, I am 37 with a 15 yr old daughter who’s staying with my parents for the first time in her life while I stay close to Nova University to be a guinea pig to receive any treatment available since their a “teaching hospital” in medicine who works closely with John Hopkins. Anyways, with that said, here is my question that I posted several weeks ago. Sorry for the lengthiness. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I’m scared to go to the police about my husband stealing my pain meds(his dad is a Miami ex-detective)HELP!?
I asked this question before but apparently did not provide enough information. I do not want to snitch on my husband. I have tried to hide the medication but he gets extremely angry (but does not hit me). However, I have been a victim of domestic violence before (where my ex-husband tried to kill my family & stabbed me with a knife) so I do not know if I am extra fearful about confronting him and/or putting my foot down; I was in counseling (as well as my family) for that for 5 years before I met my new husband who is well aware of my past. I have tried to speak to his family who not only is in denial or “tired of dealing with the problem” as they put it as long as he acts “productive” to them that is all they care about. Plus, he is a “momma’s boy” so it’s like he can do no wrong. The only time that I know (I suspect there were more now) that he was “busted” by them for abusing pain medication he stated the pain medication was mine. However, this pain medication was something he purchased on the web & took a much hire dose in a short period of time & when he ran out of those he vomited so much (as well as experiencing other symptoms) for 4 days before being forced to go to the hospital via ambulance (in front of his parents) & when he got there he was so dehydrated (he could not hold even Gatorade) that when his toxicology screen came back for opiates he was “clean.” He was honest to the drs at the hospital about his opium use & that is why they recommended he see a GI physician because his intestinal tract was in such bad shape due to ulcers from the pain med. However, since he also had food poisoning (as well as I but did not suffer because as much because I had a superior GI tract) and was given antibiotics his originally suspicious parents believed that it was just food poisoning & that this non-prescribed stash was mine, which has now ruined my relationship with my in-laws even though I told them to blood test me anytime & even offer me a lie detector test. I only take my pain medication when I have spasm from MS, and now occipital & trigenimal neuralgia that I was diagnosed with after a severe 2004 auto accident for which I have had already 9 operations. I never have dealt with someone with substance abuse but due to

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